Episode 61: Kids at the Dentist – Coping With Fear & Dental Anxiety In Children

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Introduction

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Introduction by Eon Engelbrecht and welcoming Dr Clifford Yudelman

What is the ideal age for a child’s first dental visit

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Professional bodies recommend by the first birthday or six months after the first tooth erupts. At OptiSmile Sea Point, an informal “pop-in” builds familiarity. Early, playful visits set the stage for lifelong, fear-free dentistry.

Making dental visits fun and positive at home

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Use imaginative names: mirror = “magic looking-glass,” spray = “Mr Bubbly.” Turn tooth counting into a game. Role-play “smile visits” with dental storybooks.

Unique steps OptiSmile takes to ease little ones’ fears

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OptiSmile skips cartoons for interactive show-and-tell. Kids handle tools, take photos, and play with the chair controls to feel in control.

Words and phrases parents should avoid

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Avoid words like “drill,” “needle,” “pain.” Use “smile check” or “teeth counting” instead. Celebrate healthy smiles.

The role of parents during appointments

[00:11:55]

A calm hand provides comfort. Avoid hovering or squeezing. Sometimes, stepping out helps anxious kids settle.

Handling anxious children and rewards

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No security is needed—just a polite request for parents to wait outside. Small toys, sticker charts, or a favourite-colour toothbrush work as rewards.

How early visits prevent later anxiety

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Familiar sights, sounds, and gentle exposure build trust. Involving older siblings can help. Gradual exposure and rescheduling if needed.

Options for persistent fear

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OptiSmile uses mild oral sedation if necessary. For extensive treatment, referrals to specialists for conscious sedation. Gradual desensitisation often works.

Top three take-home tips for parents

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1. Role-play dental visits at home.
2. Brush together using a timer or hourglass.
3. Use storybooks or videos to build positive expectations.

Closing

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Thanks for listening. Don’t forget to subscribe for more insightful discussions. Consult your dental professional for personal advice.

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Disclaimer: The content provided in this podcast, “Save Your Money Save Your Teeth” on Medical Mondays, is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to serve as dental or medical advice. The insights and opinions expressed by Dr. Clifford Yudelman and any guests are designed to foster a better understanding of dental health, preventive measures, and general well-being, but should not be interpreted as professional dental or medical recommendations.Dr. Clifford Yudelman does not diagnose, treat, or offer prevention strategies for any health conditions directly through this podcast. This platform is not a substitute for the personalized care and advice provided by a licensed dental or healthcare professional. We strongly encourage our listeners to consult with their own dental care providers to address individual dental health needs and concerns.The information shared here aims to empower listeners with knowledge about dental health but must not be used as a basis for making health-related decisions without professional guidance. Your dental care provider is the best source of advice about your dental and overall health. Please always seek the advice of your dentist or other qualified health professionals regarding any questions or concerns about your dental health.

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Dr Clifford Yudelman BDS (Wits)

Founder and Principal Dentist, OptiSmile, Sea Point, Cape Town

Dr Clifford Yudelman founded OptiSmile in Sea Point, Cape Town, in 2015 and is its principal dentist. He qualified at the University of the Witwatersrand in 1983 and has 43 years of clinical experience in London, San Diego, Perth and Cape Town. His work focuses on restorative and cosmetic dentistry that keeps as much natural tooth as possible. He hosts the Save Your Money, Save Your Teeth podcast.

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